... my family and this socity how to explain that i am lesbian so i cant marry men...as before in school days fall in love with my schoolmate..and i not tell about my love because what she think about me .now she married.with lot of pain i search why i am like that. and i understand that i am lesbian .. .western country allow this but not in india Why ?..now i have 1year to complete my ug then my mom ask about marriage.i am indian girl so i want one lifepartner as a girl with respect ,love,response.. I am in confusion what now do?..plz give advice for me
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I think India has a law against lesbian marriage or it's not in your parents religious beliefs. I think you grew up spending too much time with girls and your concious made you believe you are attracted to girls. In my opinion you should meet a boy you like and see if you fall in love with him. If you don't try with more guys. If you tried at least 10, or more and you didn't feel the smallest bit of love, then you may be a lesbian. Altough keep in mind that lesbian attractions are mostly physical appearences.
If you're attracted to the same sex, does it mean your a lesbian? Not at all!
Fact: In many cases, same-sex attraction is nothing more than a passing phase.
But what if your attraction to the same sex seems to be more than a passing phase? Is it cruel of God to tell someone who is attracted to the same sex to avoid homosexuality?
If you answered yes to that last question, you should know that such reasoning is based on the flawed notion that humans must act on their sexual impulses. The Bible dignifies humans by assuring them that they can choose not to act on their improper sexual urges.
— Colossians 3: 5.
The Bible’s stand is not unreasonable. It simply directs those with homosexual urges to do the same thing that is required of those with an opposite-sex attraction— to “flee from fornication.” (1 Corinthians 6:18) The fact is, millions of heterosexuals who wish to conform to the Bible’s standards employ self-control despite any temptations they might face. Those with homosexual inclinations can do the same if they truly want to please God.— Deuteronomy 30:19.
Hi. You maybe are one or not. That's what I told my daughter. She was was very disappointed. I did say this also, maybe you are just experimenting. So when that made her mad I knew she was. Okay. She loved girls. My heart was sad because I knew things I had planned would change somehow. She is still my beauty. She is still the same girl. She is in the military an MP and a police officer. Has a great life. You can too.
it depends on how old you are you can be lesbian yes