First things first my husband has never hurt me And the most he’s ever done to my kids a squeeze them. No bruises no broken bones, we just got frustrated that they wouldn’t stop crying and squeezed them. His main issue is that he bottles of his anger until he explodes and hurts him self.Like you punch a door hinge or himself. My last straw was when he hurt himself in front of our daughter. She’s 1 1/2! I don’t want him traumatizing her! Then he’ll get depressed and start saying we would be better off without him. It’s just not true! Our kids love him so much I love him. He’s sweet, kind, fun, loving.
So my question: he doesn’t want to go to therapy because he’s afraid they’ll take the kids away from us because he squeezed”hurting” them. Please, I don’t want my kids taken away from me but I can’t do it anymore