He has 3 kids and is married. but we have this amazing connection and I know he feels the same. He ignores me for a while and than rings me and tells I have feelings for you I miss you. His wife has threatened me a few times. But when I talk to him I know I'm so close. how can I help him come to his senses or how do I stop thinking about him 24 7 knowing his doing the same thing. His scared of what people will think