So i am lonely. I have nobody to talk to. And sadly i dont know what to do to change this. Friends are very important to alot of people. And mine have thought less and less of me the longer ive known them. Id like a change. But everyone thinks im weird. And i am quiet. And i get embarassed easily. Please help. All awnsers welcome.
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Sounds like you have the wrong friends.This ole man would be glad to be your friend.I'm a Christian & worked much with young people in my younger years & be glad to be friends with you.Meantime suggest looking for kids who are worthy to be friends with who won't try to mess you up with drugs or other things not so cool.
not rude at all friend. It is the best thing that ever happened to me,having fellowship with our very creator. He has helped me in so many ways that it would tale a very long time to put it all in writings,such as putting you in my path for a good friend possibility.We all are born sinners and mess up.Christ has forgiven me and helps me not to mess up & if I do I learn from it & become stronger the next time. He never lets me down as many of my "friends" have when things get tough.Bible tells us His return is super close as I believe we will witness it soon prior to Obama's One World Government as proposed in Nato's Agenda No #21 that many are not aware of being forced upon us, but is Major Bible Prophesy for the Anti-Christ's 7 yr reign on earth. Hey,Im usually quiet also & get lonely as am now bound by medical problems from getting out much.Now better as can be your friend if you like the idea.Be glad to tell you more about the Christian life and our God who loves you dearly and created you very special.
Id love to be your friend. You seem like a really nice person. And when i asked about god just before that was just the kind of awnser i was hoping for. :). And what kind of medical conditions are we talking about :
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I have EI/MCS ,serious heart trouble & other med problems due to EI & constant chemical exposures.EI is extremely serious allergies to pullution,chemicals,& standard allergens most can fight off ok. No cure for it & destroys immune system similar to how viruses like aids does. I would be very happy to be your friend & a happy North Texas HOWDY & Welcome Friend. Im new at this but think the pvt msg is E-Mail for this site.Ok to send anytime.
Oh that sounds horrible, so far im not alergic to anything apart from people at my school... And yeah private message. Ok
would have sent you an E-M,but no secret msg shows up for you.hopr things are better for you.I may not be here as often as serious heart trouble triggered by pesticides fogged every day and night in S.Dallas.
Are things getting better? Yet your friend.
Wow, I completely know what your talking about, ive been described that way by almost everyone including myself, my perents are the same way, the only time they actually talk to me is when im getting kicked out or grounded for any reason they can find, and i usually dont say more then 4 or 5 sentences a day. But its really nice to find someone who knows how I feel too.
Yes. Thats exactly the same. Wow. Like i can go a whole period at school and only say one word. An thats a mumbled yes when teaches are checking who is there
I dont even do that anymore cuz i used to and every time the teacher said my name i got nervous and my voice would get all squeeky haha i just hired a friend to say it for me.
Be glad to be your friend also. I've been through all of that from youth so understand as well was a Christian counselor for troubled youth for several yrs at a Baptist College & Church.
I am TERRIFIED of christianity, and christians, and god, and jesus and all that, dont ask why because i have no idea, i have people problems, im sorry.
I can help you.Several yrs ago I dealt with a 14yr old girl who felt the same because of witnessing confusion in a Pentecostal meeting of so called demon casting. She was scared to touch a Bible.God does not work that was but Satan does.God isn't ready to stomp you out when you sin.He loves you dearly so much that because sin must be dealt with as leads to Spiritual & physical death He sent Jesus to earth to die for the sins of all who turn their life over to Him and forgive ALL of our sins when He saves a person.He loves you,will forgive your sins and give you His love,peace & joy & be your Lord and best friend.Earthly friends can not be totally trusted not to turn against or desert you. Jesus will always be there for you.I can help you get rid of that fear and to really know the God who created and loves you.And I will be glad to be your earthly friend!
wonder if things are better for both of you now,I hope?
we are all ur friend u are not alone in the whole world...if he don't care about u so h's not a true friend .the friend is somone who you think your life would b different if he didn't exict.a friend is somone who never leaves u out.you are always inluded when u are with him.friend is there for u!no matter what
does this describe ur friend???
anyway !!!i can b ur friend i'm french girl living in usa now!!!
Haha. No. It doesnt really describe anyone i know, and id like to be your friend.
me too!!
Thanks. How do I 'reach out'...
I used to be like you a little. When i was younger I lossed all my friends when i moved. I couldn't get anymore and I hated everyone. I was violent towards everyone. I got more friends by pushing my anger down and letting my funny side come out. I get more peoples numbers and I'm starting to get girls numbers. My suggestion for you is to find out how to become more funny talk more and wear todays style clothes. To be excepted by more people make sure you never smell bad and your breath never stinks. Always stand up for yourself and never be a push-over.
I had the same problem. I went to a christian private school and it was puny! The MOST kids we EVER had was 60 of them. In sixth grade, there were only 17. It shut down just as I finished my last year, sixth grade. And I went into the local public school, and I was kind of glad, because I got new friends. And I know one way to change friends. Squash the dreams of your friends now! It happened to me for no reason in second grade. Sophia was my friend and there was a new girl and whenever we played a game, she would say "NO KATHRYN! It's not your TURN!!!". Sophia loved purple and green, I know it's stupid, but now I can't stand to see those two colors together. Anyway, just cut them out. Quit emailing, texting, and hanging out with them. Then just look around when your in class to see if you can find someone like you. How old are you? Because IIIIII am weird. Hope I helped!
Babe im just like you, but i promise you as it gets older it gets better. If your friends don't care, they're no friends of yours. You need to follow these simple steps...
1. Make a change. You feel insecure as you are, so a good move is to change your style so you feel more confident. I've changed to be more "grunge" and i finally feel good about myself.
2. Understand you never need to change your personality. Clothes is one thing, character is something entirely. You have to love the way you are before you can expect other people to love you.
3. Surround yourself with good people. It sounds like you have a case of crap friends. I reccomend you go find a better crowd who will like you for who you are and respect and listen to you.
4. Smile and the world smiles with you. I know that sounds cheesy, but it works. My mum told me when i was depressed, and people respond much better to you if you don't look like you're about to cry any second.
5. Be confident. You need to show people you're in control of your life and then they'll like you for it. If you're weak you'll be used by others, and that sucks.
6. Don't let people get you down. In a couple of years you will never have to speak to these people again. Grin and bear it for now, it gets better!
Good luck xxx
Hello there Happy,
I Have the same personality type introvert/quiet verses being an extrovert/outspoken most of the time. And I'm. Christians too, just like the man who gave an answer before me. I learned thru the years to cope with ppl who weren't like me although they tried to make me feel guilty about me just being myself. I never followed a crowd that disinterested me and I always stood my ground when I made decisions to either go with the crowd or go alone. I'm not a pushover and when ppl try to bully me I always spoke to someone in authority, like a school principle, counselor, parent, trustworthy friend. Don't let anyone tell you your less important due to your personality type, you are just good at keeping your mouth shut when necessary verses blabbering about everyone's business. Many ppl would love to be like us, cool , laidback, very imaginative and intellectual, always coming up with new inventions and we're very open-minded, plus we can accomplish anything we set our minds to. Is that enough to make you feel better? All that I say is true and we'll tested over the years by people just like us. Wear that big smile you well deserve it!!!
When they ask for volunteers for something at school, stick your hand up! Get out there with some other volunteers. You all have one topic to talk about, the project you are helping with. You need to learn to socialize and even if it's a sentence here or there it's practice.
Does your school have clubs? Join one. If its something you understand and can do get your butt off the chair and go join! Again, you have a built in topic of conversation which is something you all have an interest in.
Start going to football or basketball games. I don't care if hate sports. Clamp a smile on your face and get out there and shout for the home team. You are all there to be supportive so you have a mutual topic of interest. People see you having fun and smiling and cheering you don't appear weird any more. You talk to some of them you don't sound weird. You see the same people then hi how are you hope we have something to cheer about and there is normal conversation.
Ask your mom if you can take up yoga, martial arts, gymnastics, dance or join a gym so you have an after school activity. It will build
self-confidence and you have something to talk about.
Invite a friend over for a movie and popcorn or just go out for coffee. Start small work up.
Good luck!
:) thank you. i dont know how to ask this without being rude... But whats it like being christian, like the feeling of someone watching your back for lack of better words?