Im in a long distance relationship, and I graduate this year. We've only been together for a short time but we have talked none stop for the past month or so..between skype text calling. But her dad doesnt approve along with her aunt. Her mom supports but she can only do so much cuz of other reasons. Now we call every night (hiding it), and stuff but she may be stayin with her aunt who doesnt approve and my gf has to hide the fact we date, let alone that she even has a phone. Theres alot more to it but i think she could b the one. I dont want to end it either as does she. She literally does anything and everythin to try and communicate with me, and plans on comin to see me at graduation, sooner, and during the summer. I Love her to death, and shes really the only person iv every been with that i knew we could b together for ahile, even forever! But Im the type that still wants that full relationship if that makes sense. Im scared she will get caught and not b able to communicate with me and the relationshhip will end. UGH this sucks..but if u have any advice to wether i should keep this relationsip or end it please help me!
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The one thing you need to do is not let the frustration turn into a Monster. Good luck!
When u are talking of real relationship it require a sacrifice. Another thing i want u to understand is that God is the only one that know the best for u. I wont say u shu end the relationship neither u shu continue. One important thing i want u to do is that u shu intensify in ur prayer. Both of u may love each other so much but u are not meant for each other. U dont need to force each other to be together, let God work things out for u by total approval from pple around u. Ask God in ur own little way for direction from God and u will av it.
thanks that seems like a good idea and i will pray to god..and were not forcing it at all.
well, love need to do so many sacrifices and go to many problems or circumstances because that will make the relationship bond stronger. And with this i will ask you do you really love her if yes then don't end because you will just hurt both of you, you see how much your girl loves you that even her dad or relatives approve she still find a way to have communication with you. Given that your situation is hard but think of if you will break up with her and find somebody else will you still be happy as much happy as you when you are with her. Think about this things also sometimes its not how long the hours you spend each other together but the quality of the time that she is with you and you are with her.
wow i love ur answer thank you so much. it makes total sense.
thankyou I appreciate the advice!